My boyfriend and I have had an on again, off again relationship. On one of the off again occasions, I left on bad terms with the MIL and the SIL. And needless to say I am scared to death of them both. Its not that they are overtly mean or snub me everytime they see me. Well the SIL glares at me when she sees me so shes excluded. But mostly I try to avoid them at ALL costs and I mean at ALL costs. I won't go over to the bf's house if they are home unless its late at night and they won't see me. And if they are home, I hide out in his room. I don't know if its my guilt from how things ended or maybe I feel like they are going to judge me based on my relationship with the said bf.
The idea of inserting myself back into their life ie. birthdays, dinner, whatever sends me backpedaling to my cave. I keep telling myself to suck it up, hold my head high and just "do" it. Its absurd, I'm absurd..Are any of you scared of the In-laws? What do or did you do to combat it?
Hi kelsi... my name is chris. To comment on your little predicament, I think everyone is at some point scared of the In-laws, but I truly belive that if you care about this bf, his mother and sister will see that in every action you do, and it will seem like you have to walk on eggshells with them for a bit, but the more they see you put your heart into this relationship, they will warm up to you and start to respect you.
ReplyDeleteWell its been three years lol..so if they don't like me now, I don't think they ever will. I just need to be confident in my relationship. Its not about them but about him and I, yeah?
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